it’s nice to share

(Thinking about this as I sit in a waiting area and the dustiest but friendliest California auto shop getting my oil changed and the big once over in prep for heading to the east coast. The lovely older man (Owner) and I have just shared travel stories and talked about how traveling indeed is the best education…)

Sometimes I forget how many resources I have because it’s normal to me to stay in touch and send birthday and anniversary cards to hundreds of people a year. It all started because I just like people, places and fun things and connecting with all types of humans. Years later I have a pool of people and place knowledge from keeping in touch I can do everything from contacting 10 friends off the top of my head to ask the best route to obtain a foreign work visa, to connecting my fresh college grad cousin with real estate and business peeps in the Big Apple, to recommending a yummy pizza joint in Wisconsin.

Several times during my travels this summer and before, I have handed my card to someone and offered that if they found themselves in a odd/off place, or ever needed inside scoop for good eats or a couch to crash- to please let me know. So many people and cities have been good to me over the years. I have BUCKETS of people, insider info. and resources to share. What good does having all this info. do if I can’t share it/pass it on?

If you’re ever out there traipsing and wandering, wondering where to get the best breakfast is in Vermont, what National Park will most knock your socks off out west, or where to get coffee in Minot, North Dakota, consider me Blue Lollipop Road Google. Even better I have incredible friends and amazing strangers that would totally put you up and feed you a good meal in every state in America (and some beyond.)

I like to share. People share with me, I do my homework, I share with you. Pay it forward is lovely.

Next time you find yourself scratching your head trying to find the way to yummy food or fun…shoot me an email or post a comment here. I’m happy to share thoughts, resources and opinions!

who’s up for another road trip?

-or should I say, finishing my road trip?

Westward ho!

Um, I mean…Eastward.

Looks like I’ll be back on the east coast in time to eat some turkey. Here continues the great job search of 2010!

In making my decision to continue east, I got this email from a business person I know. It was a humbling and flattering email to say the least and very unexpected. I wanted to share it not to pat myself on the back (we all know I have made plenty of mistakes in my life), but because it reminded me that everything I (you) do makes a difference. People really are paying attention. I met this person years ago, I’ve had very sporadic interaction with them, and sure assumed we had a mutual respect for each other, but certainly did not think that he “saw” me/thought quite as high as this about me. This is a person who has been around the block, is much older and lived X10 of life and business than I:

” I knew you had to travel the pipe line; wrestle a few Carribu; smash a few grapes; and find some hunk under a rock in Cassablanka. There is no doubt that “the killer chick” will find what she wants right under her nose – what usually happens. When one is as industrious, independent, smart, beautiful, and hardheaded as you are- one has to hit the right wall hard enough to know what direction to take. Keep hitting walls; it will come”

I suppose this is also important for me to share because I hope it encourages you to stay true to yourself. I have tried harder to do that than anything else in my life. I’ve had an inclination to throw in the towel a few times since I’ve been an adult. Life throws you curve balls and serves us challenges sometimes that are debilitating. That and lets face it, it is not an easy road to find your feet and foundation as you grow up. The truth is, how you maintain and stay true and steady to yourself and your beliefs during those tough growing times- those are what people remember you for. There’s no way everyone in the world is going to like me, or you. It’s impossible to please everyone. The best people will see you for who you really are and stick with you through the good, bad and ugly. (AKA; “Finding yourself through your 20’s, growing into your own, etc.)

Here’s to the journey, paying attention, staying in touch, and being flexible, but holding steady to what and who you are.

in a van…down by the river

(A little bit of Chris Farley for your Monday morning anyone?)

In my case, I won’t be in a van, but my car, down by some river.

After 28 legitimate leads, 13 interviews, 3 staffing agencies/recruiters, countless events, meeting people left and right with a smiley face, a bunch of other efforts I can’t even keep track of anymore and 6 weeks…well, I’ll just make you guess the rest.

Stay tuned for the next chapter of BLR:
Adventures of a girl on the road going town to town to learn how to make the crispiest french fries in deep fryers.

I know some people out there think it’d be fun to not work a ton, have no stress, pressure, etc. Good on those folks, to each their own, That’s just not me. It never has been. I like to work and be busy. As in- a lot of work and busy. I’m ready to crush it. I’m not going to stop trying until I have gone to every city in America to get myself busy and making money. Someone will smarten up sooner than later and see that I can make them a lot of money. Then they will hire me for more than one day of work a week, they will treat me well and I will crush it for them.

Until then, I will fill time by drawing pictures on pieces of cardboard and sitting outside gas stations with signs that read something like:
Dog died
Truck broke
Husband left
Need beer

…and people with throw their extra pennies in my cup.

And you think I’m kidding.

Look, all bets are off. This has reached the point of absurdity. I have figured out my stripper name; Bandit Hidden Valley so I’ve got to get crackin’. At least those places are always hiring.

Is this all as entertaining for you as it is for you? It’s not worth crying over. I mean sure, I am really pissed off that my talents are going unused in a lot of ways right now, but I swear I have more material for blogging and book writing than I could ever use in one lifetime.

Everything happens for a reason. I love every minute of it. Even the pissed off ones. I was fortunate enough to learn a long time ago that anything really is possible. When you learn that, you get this perpetual fire inside you and nothing can shut you up or stop you. (Maybe that’s why that nun in that religion class I despised when I was about 12 years old hauled off and smacked yelling at me that I was a “Bold little girl!”) I guess she saw my fire.

Off to keep the good fight fighting!