this just in: i’m human

I know. Alert the presses. Probably one of the hardest things I have ever admitted.

To say I have been running on all cylinders or burning the candle at both ends for years is an understatement. In fact, if you Googled “Balls-to-the-wall” (I’m so classy..) right now, I’m sure there’d be a photo of me there waving like a poster child for that saying. I’ve relished in the momentum and madness, I love a seemingly impossible challenge and I’ve previously believed I could be and do anything in 2. 5 seconds.  Well, I reached a spent point a few weeks ago:

Just friggin’ tired.

I never thought this would happen. I think it’s been 17 years since I’ve taken a nap until this month. I’m that girl who would bleed out of my eyeballs before going to bed without washing every dish in the sink, returning every call or email, and I always think I can fit just one more thing in before sitting down. I am a master multi-tasker and I have far more energy than most humans. (We are all still trying to figure out where I came from 🙂 I’ve somehow kept up a consistent lighting speed go go go pace, even during some serious tragedy, when I’ve been hosed, and when I’ve been so exhausted it’s felt impossible to keep my eyes open. I’ve recently joked several times that someone could beat me in the face with a steel stiletto heel while I was running a marathon and I’d be able to say “That’s all ya got?.”

I’m here to announce that I crashed after my Honda September trip. I mean crashed. I’ve rested and relaxed like I was on a beach with a bucket of Coronas (except I’m in Chicago on a couch) for about a month now. I’ve allowed myself to leave dishes in the sink, I’ve let myself fall into bed right after work if I have felt tired, and even powered my phone off at times. (Livin’ on the edge I am!) It’s been amazing. I feel like a new woman. Really, I feel like an entirely recharged new human. This step away, reflect, rework and rest time has been one of the best things I’ve ever done for myself and gotten me even more jazzed up for what’s next in the Blue Lollipop World than I’ve ever been before.

If you have been checking in here wondering when I was going to post my September Honda trip wrap up, the Million Mile Joe celebration and more, those posts will be here soon and are promised to be awesome. While the timing to rest when coming off such a big exciting trip could’ve been better, when my body, mind and soul got to a point where they couldn’t even see straight anymore, shut down mode happened and I had little choice in the matter. Believe me, I am a pusher (My Mother is laughing right now along with a lot of other people) and if had been humanly possible to maintain my typical pace this past month I would’ve, but it simply wasn’t so there you have it: I’m human.

Man that feels good to say.

So reading this now if you have concluded that my pervious post titled “Site Maintenance” really meant “Diane Maintenance”, but actually really does mean site maintenance in the end. (Yes, this would be the first time I caught a clue that it’s possible to get more work done while actually “doing” very little.) Two gifts I have been given by cutting myself some slack these past few weeks:

1.) A clear vision of where I want Blue Lollipop Road to go from here and how I am going to get there.

2.) Being reminded once again that Blue Lollipop Road is my heart and soul, I love spending time here and doing what I do more than anything else.

Awesome.

So does this mean the rested me is going to move at a snails pace and keep taking lots of naps? Heck no! It’s engrained in my DNA to be a million miles and hour and I wouldn’t have it any other way. The difference is I’ll be less hard on myself when I need a breather. I’m already back up and off to the races like the energizer bunny. Of course I can give you all the dish in one night, so you’ll just have to check back and see what’s next. It just might involve you…

 

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dear readers, fans, and followers~

As we all know, unfortunately sometimes things aren’t so awesome. Somehow we have to keep trucking.

I’d be lying if I said it hasn’t been a huge challenge keeping BLR rolling 24/7 these past 3-plus years, because it has. I’m not a trust-fund kid, I don’t make money from this, and it’s quite a finagle-fest to be a nomad and maintain a job that actually brings cash in, so I can live the life I want to live and pay my bills too. It’s all good, all worth it, and I’m not going to stop doing whatever I have to. But? As I get some sleep, play catch up, and work on a planned big ol’ shift for things here, you might find my daily posts a bit sporadic over these next few weeks as I make some changes behind the scenes.

Just as I had written the above to post a couple days ago, I found out some beyond heartbreaking and tragic news about a very good friend. The kind that makes you gasp for air, your knees buckle, and feel like you are going to lose your lunch all at the same time. The kind that I haven’t felt for 17 years, and the kind that I will never forget.

A freight train of perspective once again.

What really matters? People, time, and doing what you love. What else? Nothing.

So, as I feel like I might be behind on everything, when I’m tired, and have those Grrr! Days; Are things ever going to be easy, just flow, and what the heck am I doing this all for anyway?! – That perspective flies in and I know I’m doing exactly what I’m meant to do. I’m also reminded that my bad days are nowhere near the nightmare of what some others are living through right now.

Life is way too short. If there’s something you really want to do, start doing it. Please. Follow your heart, your gut, and do what you want, then encourage and support someone else to do the same.

See you all back here soon…

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how ’bout a click on the daily awesome?

Take a gander HERE.

…because even on hard days, crazy days, and busy days- there are always so many awesome things!

Want to add to the awesome list? Come on- it will be fun.

Thanks for being patient with me as I FINALLY get internet installed in my apt. today! I will be so excited to finally upload at “lighting speed” so I can post videos about my Honda September trip wrap up, food photos from life changing Sicilian pizza in Portland Maine last weekend, and all the good stuff I have from the Million Mile Joe celebration.

Here’s to TGIF and weekends planned for catching up on that giant list of to-do’s!

 

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