July 24, 2009
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Still Working On #6 For You
Clearing out old emails, I just saw this one. Got it a while back after a break-up. Before I hit delete I thought I’d share.
Glad I kept showing up for those 6am runs Neil. Who says you need to actually see or talk to a person regularly to know you have a real friend. Thanks for the love and for making me laugh!
From Neil, for when feeling blue:
1) listen to happy music
2) when you think of him/relationship, find a replacement to think about (for me, it’s australia!)
3) write a little bit, but not too much
4) find someone else to go on some dates with, a total distraction. someone that you won’t be tempted to talk about your relationship with at all
5) find a friend or someone to talk to, and tell them that you need them to NOT talk about the relationship for a while, and then just have conversations about nothing. and, have them be available when you need them 24/7 as much as possible. whenever you get blue, call them and talk about anything other than the relationship.
6) find sophia bush for me!!! (okay, that probably won’t help you, but damn that would be awesome for me!!!)
7) know that you are loved by many, many people!
8) visit me in SF soon!
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